A good friend of mine once said, "Fiza, what do you expect? Friends do get treated like dustbins. Friends are their dustbins" I somewhat shocked to hear that--and completely against it.
She raised a good reason, but nonetheless, I can't fathom the idea of friends as dustbins. This is why I never believe in Best Friends. I know, friends should always be there for each other, but it takes two to tango, honey. No relationship can last that long when one is selfish and not trustworthy--plus, I don't easily categorized friends up to my good list that easily...Cuz from my experience--Whenever I get too comfortable with people, something bad will happen and the friendship ends.
My friends may be good forsaken angels, probably that's why they can handle being treated that way...but I know I'm no angel. If you're selfish then I add you in my friends-i-can't-count-on list. And if you push my button way too far, obviously you're going to get it from me. That's how my system functions.
My point is, don't treat your friend as your dustbin, as for they are your jewels. Don't under-valued your jewels till its too late. Human have feelings, they care, they love, they get hurt and can turn over you if you don't nourish them. Like any relationships, it takes two to tango.
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